{"id":5418,"date":"2021-01-14T09:15:00","date_gmt":"2021-01-13T22:45:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/librariansmatter.com\/blog\/?p=5418"},"modified":"2021-01-14T09:09:47","modified_gmt":"2021-01-13T22:39:47","slug":"giving-myself-the-best-part-of-my-day","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/librariansmatter.com\/blog\/2021\/01\/14\/giving-myself-the-best-part-of-my-day\/","title":{"rendered":"Giving myself the best part of my day"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Three weeks ago I moved.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">House.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Job.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When the train carrying my furniture derailed across the desert, I was facing an extra week or so, over Christmas, alone in a near-empty strange house. My two very familiar cats were with me, the moving company had been very supportive about helping me get hold of essentials to tide me over, and I still had a dewy-eyed kind of outlook about this being one big, exciting adventure to be relished. And I had moved to be near the beach. The beach!!!!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/librariansmatter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/IMG_7784-1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"480\" src=\"https:\/\/librariansmatter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/IMG_7784-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5427\" srcset=\"https:\/\/librariansmatter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/IMG_7784-1.jpg 640w, https:\/\/librariansmatter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/IMG_7784-1-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/librariansmatter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/IMG_7784-1-400x300.jpg 400w, https:\/\/librariansmatter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/IMG_7784-1-240x180.jpg 240w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">BUT, with most of the objects around me totally unfamiliar, no real feel for the geography and no appointments to keep I decided I needed to do a bit extra to gain some kind of routine and stability.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I set a morning routine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I&#8217;m not sure I would have otherwise thought so carefully or purposefully about what was important for me to do daily.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I am lucky enough to have a job where I can (within reason, and as part of a very two-edged sword) set my own timetable during the day.  In the past, I have conscientiously tried to exercise before work and then make it in to the office as early as possible. Sort of a &#8220;you can have dessert after main course&#8221; approach, where I aimed to put in all my work hours as soon as possible so I could go off and play later in the day.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Except, I also have the kind of job where a few extra minutes spent at the end of the work day easily becomes a few extra hours, especially if I want to maximise the fun, interesting and rewarding aspects. I have written before about<a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/librariansmatter.com\/blog\/2019\/07\/23\/mental-health-and-self-care-at-university-academic-staff\/\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/librariansmatter.com\/blog\/2019\/07\/23\/mental-health-and-self-care-at-university-academic-staff\/\" target=\"_blank\"> how the  hamster wheel of academia works against self-care<\/a> by encouraging people with a particular personality-type, who have been rewarded all their lives for a very specific set of actions and traits, to voluntarily strive for excellence beyond common sense.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When I made my list of all the things I would love to do daily, it was pretty long. And some extra ideas came after the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/search?q=morning+routines\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/search?q=morning+routines\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">inevitable Google search<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I asked myself &#8220;What would happen if I started work at a reasonable, but not so early,  hour? What if I took the time when I was freshest and most rested, to do things I would love to do, but seem not to get around to each day?&#8221; I decided on a routine where I spent an unheard-of hour and a half of my freshest time focussing on activities that would make me healthier and happier.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So, for a few days I did just that. I&#8217;d like to say that I stuck to it and every morning has been a celebration of what I love, followed by a productive 8 hours or so of academic work. As far as academic self-care, though, even after ten years or so in the game I am still very, very much on &#8220;L&#8221; plates and I have already put in some horrendously long all-nighters. (This may, however, actually suit my work-style and not be so horrific&#8230; if I remember to balance it out&#8230;)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So, during my week rattling around in my house, I bought myself an oversized beanbag at Kmart and set up a &#8220;morning place&#8221; and decided on:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/librariansmatter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/IMG_2961small.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"750\" height=\"562\" src=\"https:\/\/librariansmatter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/IMG_2961small.jpg\" alt=\"beanbag and plant\" class=\"wp-image-5423\" srcset=\"https:\/\/librariansmatter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/IMG_2961small.jpg 750w, https:\/\/librariansmatter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/IMG_2961small-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/librariansmatter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/IMG_2961small-400x300.jpg 400w, https:\/\/librariansmatter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/IMG_2961small-240x180.jpg 240w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Wake up. No devices in the bathroom. (Unlike usual Twitter, email, looking at teaching site. I am sure I am not the only one&#8230;)<\/li><li>Floss and brush teeth<\/li><li>Feed cats, open curtains and windows<\/li><li>Grab glass of warm water with lemon and walk to morning place<\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/juliacameronlive.com\/basic-tools\/morning-pages\/\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/juliacameronlive.com\/basic-tools\/morning-pages\/\">Morning pages<\/a> using pencil on iPad into Goodnotes. This is three pages of writing without censorship or aiming for good form &#8211; just writing. It is the corner-stone of Julia Cameron&#8217;s <a href=\"https:\/\/juliacameronlive.com\/\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/juliacameronlive.com\/\">the Artist&#8217;s Way<\/a> . This releases any pressing thoughts that would otherwise be whirring about. It also reminds me that yes, I CAN write. So later in the day when I need to do it again I can just get down into it without any preciousness about how HARD it is. It&#8217;s only taken me 15 years or so to try it out, since<a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tandfonline.com\/doi\/abs\/10.1080\/00049670.1996.10755732\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.tandfonline.com\/doi\/abs\/10.1080\/00049670.1996.10755732\" target=\"_blank\"> John and Becky at Aurora<\/a> suggested it was useful.<\/li><li>Mindfulness\/meditation. I have been setting a timer and am up to 12 minutes now. The cats detect when I am about to start and both climb on my lap. Better than <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/concreteplayground.com\/melbourne\/event\/breathe-in-bleat-out-goat-yoga\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/concreteplayground.com\/melbourne\/event\/breathe-in-bleat-out-goat-yoga\" target=\"_blank\">goat yoga<\/a> ?<\/li><li>Walk down to beach and swim.<\/li><li>Return home to shower and dress for the day<\/li><li>Make breakfast<\/li><li>THEN, over breakfast, for the first time since waking up, look over the news headlines and Twitter and what is on my Trello board for the day.<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I did this on 6 January, and it brought home how beneficial this process could be. Instead of sitting on the loo, barely yet awake and doom-scrolling through reports of this outrage and that horror, I found out about the first 2021 U.S. coup attempt over breakfast, having been in a more relaxed and sustaining world for a couple of hours.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Thanks to <a href=\"http:\/\/sanlive.com\/why-i-dont-blog\/\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"http:\/\/sanlive.com\/why-i-dont-blog\/\">Sandy for her very eloquent post this evening about why she has not been blogging<\/a> for spurring me to blog this evening \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Three weeks ago I moved. House. Job. State. When the train carrying my furniture derailed across the desert, I was facing an extra week or so, over Christmas, alone in a near-empty strange house. 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