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He doubted her seriousness<\/a> Uploaded to Flickr on January 20, 2008<\/a>by ben pollard<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n Friend of mine, here in the heart of Fremantle hippyland, did a “discover yourself” kind of course at our local Adult Education house. The exercise involved pairing up and one person asking the other “Who are you?” for 10 minutes. As soon as the enquirer had an answer, she asked it again, and again and again. By the time my friend had reached the three minute mark, she’d exhausted all the obvious answers and was beginning to surprise herself with what she was saying – it was all true stuff about who she was, but not always obvious – even to herself.<\/p>\n I’m not advocating chanting “who are you?” at your co-workers over and over … but it might be a useful exercise to take some time out to ask “what does this person think she is doing?”.<\/p>\n Let’s take a couple of examples.<\/p>\n When you are answering a student question on the reference desk, what are you doing? If you believe you are there giving the student the information that she needs, you will give a very different answer to a co-worker who believes she is there educating the student how to find information for herself.<\/p>\n If you think that you come to work to catalogue books, you are going to do things very differently to your colleague who believes she is there to provide access to information. If you think you come to work so that you can fund your real passion -restoring old lawnmowers – you are going to behave very differently to someone who comes to work because they would go around the bend looking after their small children all day. That’s different to someone who comes to work because she believes what she is doing changes lives in a good way, or that doing a good day’s work is reward in itself.<\/p>\n And then, how about adding in who your co-workers think they are serving? What if you are in a public library and think you are there to serve people who cannot otherwise buy books or navigate information, when your boss thinks you are there to serve the councillors on local government who fund your library?\u00a0 How about in an academic library? What if you think you are serving the students and need to be up to date with the technology they are using in their everyday lives, whereas your colleague believes she is serving the academics and needs to support the traditional teaching methods used by these people?<\/p>\n